I woke up this morning thinking about the past couple weeks here at MAP. It has definitely been challenging, eye opening, and rewarding. One of the main questions that permeated throughout the press conference that we had with the Botswana press this past thursday was "why are you here ?". And our answers hovered around the fact that we are here to engage in a collaboration of the arts via drama and dance which are the principle disciplines being taught, in addition to rap, song and more. To build an international community that allows us to express our artistic passion to the world. Sumtin like dat! Yet as I get more detailed in my thinking as it relates to what has transpired since arriving on what we call the Motherland, there are moments worth paying attention to that speak even more in depth to the value of this trek. It is the conversation that I had with two young women (who's name I won't mention) about contemplating their lives and how to navigate through it with wisdom, that resignates. Both of them hanging in the balances between honouring there parents and what they believe is best for their lives and fighting to engage and cultivate that artistic urge that speaks to their calling in life. What does one do when tradition is so overbearing that you find yourself in bondage to a mode of thinking that is in contradiction to what you know or at least strongly believe you were born to do. How do you take ownership of your destiny even when it means you may have to abandon the comfort of support, the intimacy of relationships, or the security of your homeland. These are the questions I am being asked and I can't answer with "you have to identify the protagonist of the play" or " you have to use different tactics to get beyond your obstacles". Naw not dis time, dis real life; dis ain't no play. Now I have to share some life experience. I have to speak from my heart and share my best self, cause now this is the difference between life and death. Oh I know we don't want to make it that deep but it is! Now i'm wearing the hat of a role model. These two precious souls have gained enough trust in me to give me a say in what they might do with the rest of their life. I've seen it happen time and again. The entrusting of someones opinion about what the next step should be. Bad advice or maybe just ignorance leading to the mentees temporary derailment as well good instruction being the catalyst to a journey of fulfillment. Truth be told there are many times when I try to avoid the notion that my responsibility to others require more than skilled teaching in a classroom but I can't because "it is what it is".
So now I revisit the "thru line" question of the Botswana press conference with a more insightful understanding that really answers the question. By virtue of the name of the school "Maru-a-pula" we have engaged this opportunity to offer "Promises of Blessings". A life's purpose transcends everything we are doing! So in this last week it may do us some good to pay attention to that conversation that takes place right after a class or when we are on our way to bed because of exhaustion and a student has something pressing to share because our investment in them gave them confidence to open up. One thing I have learned is that those life changing moments where purpose is further realized very rarely take place within the convenience of our set schedules. Or maybe dats jus me... Carpedium!
I love it! Thanks so much for sharing this side of the trip, of yourself, of this amazing journey. You are clearly a blessing promised to your students, and obviously, they are blessing you as well. And....eh....I TOLDJA:
ReplyDeleteMINISTRY!!!!!
Yes, "it is what it is....and IT IS!!"
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